Concubine Raiders

Thank you for your concern. I have been very busy these two days. Now it's the weekend. You have made a lot of comments in the past two days. I have a look at them and add some points that have been ignored in previous comments.

1. The second wife's advice

the second wife regards herself as a courtier and makes strategic suggestions, rather than a sister-in-law giving Tactical Guidance to her sister-in-law, which is exactly the biggest problem in the second lady's advice. Personally, I think what the queen needs now is tactical guidance from relatives, not strategic advice.

The second lady did not consider the Queen's growing environment. If Xu Lingchen grew up in a comfortable and peaceful environment, it is reasonable for the second lady to admonish the queen with these histories. But in fact, the Empress Wu of the former dynasty was not far away. Xu Lingchen had seen it with his own eyes. Therefore, Xu Lingchen also understood the possible consequences after the separation of the empress and the emperor without the second lady's historical and strategic speech. That's why "Empress is stronger than we think, and more insightful than we think." What does the queen lack? It's Tactical Guidance, not strategic advice. This is the fatal wound in the second lady's advice.

When it comes to how to do tactical guidance, the key lies in two points: one is psychological counseling, the other is gongdou education. But these two points are exactly what the second lady can't do well. The second wife is a smart person, but not good at psychological counseling. And how Gong Dou does it, I'm afraid the second lady is not willing to talk about it. Of course, in terms of her identity, it is not suitable for her to say so.

In the Xu family, it is Xi Xi and Mrs. Tai who are really suitable to do these two things. Eleven is suitable for counseling, because she has experience as a divorce lawyer. Mrs. Tai is the only one who is suitable for the tactical education of palace fighting for the queen. No one else is qualified for this (so we can't blame the second lady too much on this point). But obviously, the Xu family was not familiar with the court struggle, so they sent the second lady, the most unsuitable lobbyist, to lobby the queen (of course, it was also because the Xu family couldn't send other people at that time. Originally, Mrs. Tai was indeed the best candidate. As for the October 1 incident, it was too unknown, so it was reasonable to be ignored this time).

2. There are few students who comment on this point, but in my opinion, this is actually a very important clue to analyze the current situation faced by the Xu family.

Mr. Deng is Jian Wang's teacher, and seems to be half of Xu Si's. Of course, Mr. Deng became emperor. Such a person's attitude towards the Xu family is very intriguing. Let's look at the problem from two aspects.

If, as Mr. Deng Weilong said, "on the one hand, Madame Zhenyi is successful." We can infer that the emperor was also such a person. Then we can be sure that the emperor has begun to be indifferent to the queen. If this is the case, the Xu family should immediately advise the queen to get rid of all illusions and be careful to be a queen instead of a wife.

On the other hand, if Mr. Deng is not as the second lady said, then the problem is actually more serious.

As the saying goes, it is better to know a son than a father. In feudal times, a good teacher may know more about his students than his father. According to the news we know now,

(1) the emperor still called the Queen "Lingchen, Lingchen", which did not appear to be indifferent on the surface. But it is precisely the surface is not weak, if there is a fake behind it, it is even more frightening.

(2) When the emperor became an official, he looked like he had become famous and retired. But the fact is that the emperor still has a lot of things to do, and the power of the Empress Dowager party in the imperial court can not be underestimated. Why does Mr. Deng have to return?

(3) Not recommended by Xu Fu. It can't be that there is no suitable person, it can only be that he is not willing to have any further involvement with the Xu family. If such an imperial master was not willing to be involved in Xu's family, then what kind of existence was Xu's in the emperor's mind?

Therefore, if Mr. Deng is not as the second lady said, then there is a great reason to say that Mr. Deng is actually warning the Xu family. Be careful. The emperor has already taboo against the Xu family. This is much more serious than the simple emperor who likes the new and dislikes the old.

Under such circumstances, if Xu si still insists on making a clear fight with the district and the Yang family, then the Xu family will be in bad luck. If this is the worst case, the only correct way for the Xu family is to break teeth and swallow blood. The fifth Prince died when he died. He was honest and obedient to the emperor without any investigation. Even, it is hard to say whether the death of the fifth prince was acquiesced by the emperor. Because once it comes to the succession of the throne and the power of the relatives, the struggle has never been friendly.

In short, the danger faced by the Xu family is much greater than that on the surface.