Chapter 705 Common Problems!!

“That is, Luo Shao, aren’t you in love now?”

“Hmm.”

Is it in love, what’s wrong?

“So when you get married, will you live with your parents?”

The reporter asked this question, not only Luo Shao, but even Guan Xiaotong shook his head together: “No! ”

“Huh? Xiao Tong is in love, won’t he live with his parents? ”

“When you’re in love, of course, you live with your parents.”

“But you said it wasn’t after marriage?”

Guan Xiaotong said with a smile.

“Then you are in love, will you still live with your parents?”

The reporter continued to ask questions.

“After high school, I won’t go to college, because I don’t have to get up early and go to school, and I won’t live with my parents at that time, but I will often go back to eat with my parents or stay at my parents’ house for a few days.” 」

Guan Xiaotong’s answer, Luo Shao felt that this was also the case.

“If you get married, you will never live with your parents.”

Luo Shao said affirmatively.

“Why?”

The reporter asked Luo Shao why.

“It’s inconvenient; My parents are Xiao Tong’s parents, or the parents of my other girlfriends. ”

“Take me and Xiao Tong, for example, now that we are in love, we still live in our parents’ house, to be honest, we are really not used to it, and when we want to make love, we have to hide from our parents, otherwise we are afraid of bumping into embarrassment.”

Luo Shao expressed his personal understanding.

“In fact, if our two little families live together, I can be very casual at home, just say that in terms of dressing, I wear a pair of pants, it doesn’t matter if I walk around the house naked, my wife will see it, but if your parents or father-in-law and mother-in-law are there, then you have to dress in a disciplined manner.” 」

“Or maybe my wife is the same, living with my parents.”

“It’s also hard to do; At home my daughter-in-law’s pajamas can’t be too revealing or too casual. ”

“Moreover, there will be some loving behaviors between husband and wife, if the parents are there, it is too embarrassing, this thing can’t be straightened out, living with the parents, really uncomfortable.”

Saying that, Luo Shao also waved his hand, indicating that he really couldn’t accept this.

“So, you don’t support young people not living with their parents after they get married, do you?”

The reporter asked Luo Shao.

“No, if this is acceptable to the individual, then live with your parents.”

“If the individual can’t accept it, then don’t live with your parents, mainly to people and things.”

“There is no support for it, in general, it still depends on your own living habits.”

Luo Shao’s answer was very correct, and he did not ask others to use himself as a standard.

Anyway, he just said his own personal thoughts, not that he wanted everyone to do the same.

Presumably, there are also young couples, all of whom are like this, and they cannot accept living with their parents after marriage

“Also, if your mother and wife have a conflict, who will you choose to help?”

“Huh?”

Luo Shao faced this problem and smiled at Guan Xiaotong beside him.

“This, this, this, I will definitely help Xiao Tong, my mother-in-law and Xiao Tong quarrel, I designated to help my daughter-in-law.”

“Hahaha~” Guan Xiaotong was amused by Luo Shao’s hollow answer.

Because Luo Shao did not have a mother, there was no such thing as a mother-in-law relationship.

“No, if you are like ordinary people, have your own parents who are alive, you and Xiao Tong are married, and she and your mother quarrel, who will you help?”

In the face of such a question, Luo Shao was also very helpless, and someone would always ask.

“In fact, the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mainly a man’s problem, right?”

Luo Shao spoke his mind.

“Why?”

The reporter asked Luo Shao.

“You see, your mother is pregnant with you in October, and your wife is pregnant with a child born in October for you.”

“As a result, my mother and wife, because you quarreled so badly, the root of this problem is men.”

Luo Shao’s words also made many male compatriots fall into contemplation and listen carefully to Luo Shao’s analysis.

“Many men are like this, one is their own mother, one is their own wife, how to help is not right, this matter does not know how to deal with.” 」

“For example, on the issue of cooking, your wife wants to eat braised pork, and as a result, your mother made steamed fish; What should men do at this time? ”

Luo Shao made a hypothetical question.

Guan Xiaotong and the reporter also listened to see how he handled it.

“In the face of this problem, many men first feel that their wives are not right, their mothers have made the fish well, you have to eat braised meat, do you have to redo a portion? Or don’t eat it. ”

“Such a reaction from a man will definitely cause contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.”

“I personally think it is that my mother cooks and makes steamed fish, and my wife wants to eat braised pork; Then as a man, he can tell his mother that he wants to eat braised pork, isn’t that the end of it? ”

“At this time, you tell your mother that at most she will nag you twice, and then she will do it for you.”

“Similarly, when the wife cooks, she makes braised pork, and the mother wants to eat steamed fish; At this time, the man should tell his wife, I want to eat steamed fish, the wife is to give you a blank eye, and then do it. ”

“Of course, there is also a situation where the man says so, the mother may not do it, but if she does not do it, the mother or wife will also say the reason for not doing it; For example, there are no ingredients at home; If you buy it at this time, the time to eat dinner will be delayed by an hour or two, and you will do it tomorrow. ”

What Luo Shao said, many people can understand.

“In fact, to put it bluntly, that is, your mother wants to eat, and says to your wife that you want to eat; What your wife wants to eat, tell your mother that it is what you want to eat. ”

“The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not serious, depending on how men do it.”

“Instead of facing this kind of problem, you are biased on the side of your mother or your wife, which is not right, because which side you are on, the people on the other side are not strong.” 」

“This has to be handled well, not that you said that as a man, I am tired after a day of going out to work, and when I come home, I have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is even more tiring.”

“It’s just an excuse to make your own escape; Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled earlier, the contradiction will only become more and more serious, and the trouble it will bring you in the future will only be more. ”

Many young people can understand after listening, but some married people actually still feel that Luo Shao is not all right, in their view, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so simple to handle well.

“This is also what I just said, one of the reasons why I don’t live with my parents after marriage.”

“After all, the parents’ generation, living with our generation, the living habits are different, and naturally there are many contradictions and quarrels; This is inevitable, unless one side makes a big concession and the other side is also very sensible, so that there will be no contradictions. ”

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