I Advise You To Like Me As Soon As Possible

Ning Wan has recently been able to communicate with the big par e-mail that is about to join the office every day. For the case of the other party, Ning Wan has become more and more comfortable in analyzing, and basically established a frequency of contact with each other for one email per day. There seems to have formed a tacit understanding.

I have to say that the big par is the big par. Sometimes the other party just makes a simple point, but Ning Wan is often very cheerful after reading it, and the other party is not easy to be a teacher. Many points are also up to the point, leaving room for Ning Wan to think. In addition to the case, Ning Wan also consulted some doubts on her career planning road. The other party also answered the questions carefully and patiently, and even shared a lot of her personal experience and experience.

Although he has never seen the big par himself, Ning Wan has been in contact with the other party for a long time, and he is full of trust and respect for the other party psychologically. The idea of ​​joining his team is even stronger.

Ning Wan was originally interested in community work. Now she has new motivation and goals, and she is more energetic every day.

Early in the morning, she resolved several phone consultations and was empty, so she remembered to care about Chen Shuo--

"Is it better after talking with Dr. Zhao yesterday? Is there the urge and despair to end my life?"

Chen Shuo didn't look very good. He looked at Fu Zheng sitting on the other side badly, and then smiled at Ning Wan: "Much better." Chen Shuo continued like he was trying to suppress some emotions. "I don't want to die." He glanced at Fu Zheng again. "After all, I thought about it. I haven't found a girlfriend, and I can't die."

"Yes!" Ning Wan patted Chen Shuo's shoulder. "You just figured it out! Would you like me to introduce you? What do you like?"

"No." Chen Shuo pursed his lips, "I..."

It's a pity that he didn't have time to finish the sentence "I have someone I like" before he was interrupted by the knock on the door.

Leaning against the door is a slender figure. Now the temperature in Rongshi is not low, but the other party is also heavily armed with thick long-sleeved trousers, a hat, and a scarf around his neck. There was a pair of visors on his face, and he was a little afraid to shrink, but although the person looked strangely dressed from the costume, the other party's behavior was very gentle and reasonable-the door of the community office was open all year round, So few people deliberately knocked on the door panel so politely before entering.

"Sorry, excuse me, I want to consult about divorce..."

The other party's voice was soft and gentle, which can be described in soft whispers. It was a very comfortable female voice with a slight choking so that Ning Wan felt a little familiar. She hurried in and greeted people: Is your situation general? Is it because you want a divorce?"

The other party walked in with a flinch, turned around and looked at the door: "Can... Can the door be closed?"

Ning Wan hadn't spoken yet, and Fu Zheng and Chen Shuo got up at the same time to close the door. In the end, Fu Zheng was taller and taller. He arrived at the door earlier than Chen Shuo and closed the door by words.

Divorce cases involve a large number of individuals. It is normal for this consultant to listen to his voice very young and pay attention to protecting himself.

It's just that after Fu Zheng closed the door, the other party apparently still looked like a startled bird. Her voice choked with anxiety: "Can the door be locked?"

"I'm going!" This time Chen Shuo spoke almost anxiously, and immediately trot and grabbed the door in front of Fu Zheng.

On weekdays, Ning Wan must feel the enthusiasm of Fu Zheng and Chen Shuo, but at this moment, she looked at the client sitting at her desk, but frowned. She seemed to remember who it was.

When the other party saw that the door was locked, it seemed that he finally put down the tight string, which was not so constricting and alert, and then he took off his hat.

I didn't pick Ning Wan but thought it was strange that the other party was wearing so much. When the other party really took off the hat, then took off the glasses and took off the scarf, Ning Wan's mood grew more and more heavy as she moved.

The other person's face was blue and purple, one eye was still swollen, and there was blood stains, and only a little iodine was applied around the eyes, and the yellow color that smudged around the skin made her injury even more shocking. A small swollen eye can only open a slit, the corner of the mouth is also broken, and there is blood scab, the whole face can not see the gentle facial features of the last consultation, like a man Dirty canvases smeared randomly, worn and gloomy.

Ning Wan's heart was stagnant.

She remembered very well that a month ago, this young woman came to consult with herself. At the beginning, she had a wound on her face and tears in her eyes. She wanted to get divorced because of her husband's domestic violence.

Ning Wan has the habit of recording the consultations she has handled, and the records of domestic violence cases are more detailed than ordinary ones. She clearly remembers that she once directed the other party to call the police to teach the other party how to keep the domestic violence. The evidence also expressed willingness to provide legal aid.

Later, the other party did not find Ning Wan to continue the divorce, and she was not too surprised, because the young customer seemed not too bad at the time, the conversation was gentle and polite, and the logic of the speech was clear. At first glance, he was highly educated. Clients whose conditions are not too bad may not be willing to choose a community lawyer in the end. After all, community lawyers feel that most people are aided. There is a general perception that free or cheap products are not good, so many conditions are acceptable. Clients are more inclined to spend money to find senior barristers.

It is just the tragic appearance of this young woman in front of her. She probably did not really find a lawyer to sue for divorce after consulting herself.

"Lawyer, I want to sue for divorce. I was beaten by my husband...I'm afraid that if I go on like this, I will be killed by him..."

The young woman's voice was hoarse and choked, but her eyes were so awkward that she couldn't cry. Ning Wan only found that she had missing half of her incisor. She wanted to be interrupted by her husband...

Chen Shuo had not seen each other, but Fu Zheng had also seen him. He gave Ning Wan a solemn look, and apparently recognized the other person: "Can you tell us what is going on?"

The locked door finally gave each other a sense of security, and the young woman flinched around again, and finally cried out, "Please, help me!"

Her emotions were agitated and her mental state looked a little trance, but in the intermittent narrative, Ning Wan and the three finally understood the facts--

The young woman's name was Shu Ning. As expected, she was a talented student and a doctorate in mechanical engineering.

"My husband Yu Feiyuan is my master and doctoral classmate, because when I follow the same tutor, I often work together when doing projects and experiments, and it is also a professional, and there are many common topics. We were together during the second year of research. He used to take care of me when he went to school together, and the pressure of the doctoral thesis was great. We also came together to support it. It is also true that we are in trouble, and the relationship has been good. Once the doctor graduated, I just married like this."

"I had already received a job offer from the R&D department of a large multinational company. I originally wanted to go to work. I always used contraception, but I did not expect an accident. At that time, I found out that I was pregnant. Just get pregnant, so I decided to finish my job at home and work hard for my husband. It happened that my husband also voted for this company’s resume. The comprehensive ranking of interview and written test results was my first and he was second. I gave up the offer and just accepted him In this way, I don’t think it’s wasteful, and I don’t have a lot of fertile water. I was very happy at the time. After all, this work is considered to be very good for our professional counterparts, and the starting point is high income.”

When it comes to this, it is about recalling the beauty of the past, which is more sad than the tragic current. Shu Ning's face showed pain: "It was really happy at the beginning, and Feiyuan was also very good to me. In the Lord, he was very considerate to me during pregnancy, and he was also very caring after his daughter was born. Our family of three was very good at the time, but...

Shu Ning restrained his crying: "I just didn't expect him to change... Since the child went to kindergarten at the age of three, he has changed and became irritable and sensitive. At first, he quarreled with me and dropped things at will, but later it became Push it slightly, and then..."

Ning Wan felt bitter and depressed. The escalation pattern of domestic violence cases was always so similar, but few victims would realize that it was not that the person had changed, but that the other party was already such a person, falling in love and just entering marriage. How many times are covered with self-beautifying skin, and as time goes by, the nature will eventually be slowly exposed...

Shu Ning's tone was still puzzled and collapsed: "I also came to the consultation last time. It was the first time I was beaten. I couldn't believe he would treat me like this, thinking of divorce, but later Feiyuan apologized. , Also said not to take the example, I forgive...but I never expected that my forgiveness not only did not save his heart, but also made him more aggressive..."

Ning Wan looked serious: "Did you call the police this time?"

"Not yet..." Shu Ning whispered. "He's playing me very hard now, and I'm watching it tightly. I'm not allowed to go out. This time I sneaked out. I'm afraid to wait for the police after the police. Go, he beat me even harder..." She looked at Ning Wan like a cry for help, "Lawyer, help me, can you help me get a divorce? Can you help me fight for the custody of the child? I don't care about the money, I only Want my daughter!"

"Did you call the police last time? Have you installed a camera at home? Did you take a video of the other party beating you?"

This is the operation that Ning Wan taught her in detail when she last came to consult. However, judging from Shu Ning's evasive look at the moment, there should be no...

"Then witnesses like neighbors can prove his domestic violence?"

Shu Ning shook his head and cried again: "I wouldn't dare to speak out when I was beaten, otherwise I would be beaten even more fiercely..."

Although Shu Ning didn't finish it, Ning Wan probably understood that her high-intellectuals are usually face-saving. They believe in family ugliness and don't want to let them know.

But there is no alarm record, there is no video evidence, and no witnesses... Although Shu Ning’s injuries have not healed today, if he does not report to the police immediately after the injury, it will be difficult to prove these injuries even if the police follow up. Self-storm, from her husband.

"Why didn't you take any measures last time?" Ning Wan just felt a bad breath in her chest. "If you took measures at that time, you would not be so passive now."

Shu Ning lowered his head and wiped his tears: "After I went home last time, he knelt down and admitted that he was wrong, and slapped himself more than a dozen slaps on his face. When I said that I was going to divorce, I knelt and kowtowed, and my head was broken and bleeding. I kept apologizing to me, saying that I was under a lot of stress at work, I was confused and hit me for a while, and I will never again."

"My relationship with him for so many years, I remember the details of my previous love. Those who are good to me, I... and the child is so young. If the child is divorced, the child will be a single parent family without a father since I was a child. I want to think about it , Considering that this is indeed the first time, he forgave him, and he also wrote a guarantee to me, saying that he will not commit it next time."

What a similar story, Ning Wan became more heavy-hearted and sighed in his heart: "But then he'can't control his temper', so he hit you again, and then all kinds of crying and running noses admit mistakes, write a guarantee and kneel, you forgive me again He, then he lost his temper again, and he couldn't hold it back until he started getting heavier and heavier, making you like this?"

Shu Ning was stunned, and then nodded, her expression was bitter: "Yes... I didn't expect my patience to get this in the end, I... I want to let him be so stressed, don't get angry, or even resign. Now..."

Fu Zheng frowned when he heard this: "You mean, your current state is unemployed?"

No words are needed. For Shu Ning, this may just be a casual question. However, Ning Wan knows what Fu Zheng said. Now that Shu Ning wants to divorce and fight for the custody of her children, does she have a proper occupation to prove herself? It is critical to have a stable income.

Shu Ning’s children are no longer young children. Except that young children tend to award their mothers, older children follow the principle of how to better their children’s lives when making custody decisions. Many full-time wives lose their custody rights when they take legal action. That's it, because there is no income and no ability to find another job, the full-time life of the whole year has destroyed the careers of these mothers.

"Yes." Shu Ning didn't know the twists and turns. She lowered her head and explained, "After giving birth to my daughter, I will take the children at home, but the children are now in school, and my time is free. I have read a Ph.D. in mechanical engineering, and don’t waste it. Before that, I also voted for the resume. The company that I voted for was Feiyuan. I lost my chance because of an unexpected pregnancy and always wanted to work with him. "

"So it's your resume, Shi Shenhai, that no one wants to accept?"

Ning Wan was a little sorry, but women’s return to the workplace after marriage and childbirth was full of ups and downs. Although Shu Ning had a high degree of education, she was pregnant after birth and lacked work experience, but she did not have the age advantage of fresh graduates. May be devoted to work, it is indeed a huge disadvantage in job search...

It’s just that Shu Ning’s answer was quite surprising: “No, that company gave me an offer, and I’m welcome to go.” At this point, Shu Ning finally revealed his first weak smile since entering the office. I did my homework before applying for a job, wrote an industry research report on the situation of this company, analyzed the pros and cons of different mechanical devices, and made my own analysis and analysis of a mechanical failure that was often complained by customers in their star products. It is suggested that this report seems to be written into their eyes. One of their directors of R&D interviewed me personally, almost on the spot."

"That's great!" Ning Wan was really happy for Shu Ning, but after being happy and having some doubts, almost at the same time, Fu Zheng asked what Ning Wan thought--

"But why did you resign? Is it because of the bad working environment that colleagues have a bad atmosphere? Or is the work intensity too great? Or what happened to your family and you need to take care of your family?"

Shu Ning shook his head: "No, I like this job very much, my colleagues also take good care of me, the children at home are also very contentious, and I don't get too sick when I go to school. I also do my own work." She choked again, "I was just Feiyuan resigned."

Hearing this, Chen Shuo also frowned: "He is the kind of old man and woman and old female thought? Think you are at home?"

Shu Ning wiped his tears: "Yes, he thinks I have no face when I go to work, it seems that he seems to be making money to support a living family, so he does not support me to go out, and I am particularly unhappy after work."

"When I first started submitting resumes, he was very pessimistic and kept hitting me, saying that although I was a Ph.D., the knowledge in the mechanical field could be updated quickly. The previous studies were old and useless. Work experience, no one will look at my resume more..."

"In short, during that period of time it was quite depressed. Think about your husband saying this, let alone company personnel, especially inferiority. I voted a few companies and did not have feedback. I felt that I really did nothing. I simply settled down and wrote That industry analysis report."

Hearing this, Ning Wan frowned: "You are going to work, your husband has been hitting you all the time?"

"It’s not a blow. He said he was doing it for my own good. Give me a vaccination first. It’s not so easy to find a job now. What’s more, in the workplace, I’m cheating a lot. He hopes that I will never go through these **** winds and eyes. Seeing these filths, it’s enough for him to guard me.” Shu Ning said here, some things are very emotional, “He is actually very good to me, except that he can’t control his temper and will hit me, really. It’s pretty good..." Her eyes were red again. "Although he is a little manly, he really wants to protect me. He said that it is okay to raise me all my life. I am a responsible man..."

At this moment, Ning Wan almost wanted to shake Shu Ning's shoulders to wake her up. What does it mean "except for beating me?" If a man beats a woman, that's not enough!

Not to mention...

Just before Ning Wan spoke, Fu Zheng's voice rang out: "A man said that raising you for a lifetime, preaching you not to go to work, and striking your enthusiasm for reintegrating into society is not responsible at all."

"Why?" Shu Ning retorted almost subconsciously, "I did not go out to work with my children at home for a few years, he was indeed very good to me, and never beat me... Really speaking, we came out between The problem still started when I went to work. He felt that I was not so focused on the family and started to be dissatisfied... I also thought of resigning in this way. After thinking of resigning, the conflict between us will not intensify, let alone him The salary is enough to support the family. But I didn't expect... even if I quit, his temper seems to have completely deteriorated, and it seems that we can never go back..."

Speaking of which, Shu Ning cried again, and the tone was full of pain and sorrow: "If I knew this earlier, I wouldn't even hand in my resume..."

Sadly, even Shu Ning didn't realize that her ideas had been brainwashed by her husband, and she framed herself to die in the future-she was a woman who had the same education and excellent quality as her husband and worked hard. After graduating as a Ph.D., why should she return to the family within her master, but her husband can enjoy the stability of the rear and develop his career at the same time?

"Is this a legal requirement for the female host and the male host and the female host? You are also excellent, why can't you have your own sky? You have never done anything wrong, your husband is the wrong one." Ning Wan originally held her stomach in her chest But he didn’t expect Fu Zheng to take a step faster than her. His tone was solemn and grim, but the sentence was sharp and reasonable, “You have the right to choose your own life, you need to sacrifice your career and preferences to complete his man. What a good match, marriage is run-in, but it has never been a unilateral sacrifice. Your situation clearly shows that you can take care of your career and your family. You have already undertaken more work in the family. Why is it because he did not follow his will? Can you lose your temper?"

Shu Ning twitched twice: "I can understand how he loses his temper sometimes. After all, men are under pressure outside, their performance evaluation is rigorous, and there is a catering culture in the workplace. Although he doesn't like it, I had to cater to various meals, and often spit out before going home. He was unwilling. The man was really tired outside. Although I took the children at home, I lived in real life without worrying about livelihood..."

Fu Zheng interrupted Shu Ning's words with a sneer: "Is this what he told you?"

Shu Ning nodded: "Well, every time he loses his temper and doesn't control himself, in addition to apologizing, he will also explain that men are really difficult in modern society..."

"Wouldn't it be difficult for a woman?" Ning Wan finally couldn't hold back, "How can he only see his own difficulty? Male and female are the paths he chose, and then the pressure outside the master is tired and stressful. , I have to do it while kneeling and crawling, and all the suffering can only be resolved by myself, instead of venting to my family. Each of us ordinary people live in this world, who is not tired? He can share the damage of female fertility Was it painful? Did you vent it to him when you had a baby? Did you hit him?"

Shu Ning's gentle appearance is like a person who doesn't want to lose his temper casually, but because of such a gentle and good talk, he was pinched by someone like Yu Feiyuan.

"It's just to make excuses for yourself when you say you are stressed when you lose your temper."

Obviously the victim and the helper, but at this time, Shu Ning instead helped Yu Feiyuan to say something: "He just sometimes can't control his emotions, but before I go to work, he is really a good man..."

"A man who doesn't even control his emotions, to be honest, can't be said to be a good man. In this world, who doesn't endure the fire and live? He has a bad temper in the company, why don't he just give it to him The boss of the boss clapped, but instead vented to his innocent and weaker wife than him? This kind of man bluntly is bullying and afraid of being hard and strong, what kind of good man is it?"

Shu Ning pursed her lips, and apparently wanted to say something, but in the end she didn't say anything, and the six gods cried uncontrollably.

In this way, Ning Wan has no choice but to take out the materials: "You fill in this legal consultation service process list, if you can, recently tried to find a job, so as to facilitate the custody of the child, If the other party is not willing to negotiate for divorce, then they have to sue. Once they go through the litigation process, they should be prepared for long-term combat. It is best to be able to separate at this stage. Once separated for a long time, it can prove that the relationship has broken down. Violence, separation is a guarantee for your safety. If you don’t have a house, go to the hotel first."

Shu Ning nodded like a straw.

"There is also a wound on your face. I think I only did a simple disinfection treatment. Can I report to the police and then make an injury assessment? Although most of the other party will not admit that he was hit by himself, we must keep the evidence. , May be useful. Do we need to accompany you?"

Shu Ning shook his head: "It doesn't matter, I can do it myself."

"In addition, I will prepare an agency agreement for you afterwards, and sign if there is no problem, then I will list you a list, the original and copy of the materials on the list need to be collated for me, including the marriage certificate, and your marriage The details of some of the common property, the real estate, and all the evidence that can prove that your feelings are broken. It would be better if there was proof of past domestic violence."

Shu Ning filled out the process sheet, left the contact information, and thanked the three Ning Wan again with red eyes. Then he put on his hat and sunglasses, put on a scarf, and wrapped himself tightly and opened it. The door leaves.

Compared with the open heart just now, as if the locked door opened, Shu Ning reverted to the person who shrank, was insecure about the surroundings, and even feared to be hurt at any time.

Ning Wan looked at her back and sighed. Shu Ning can actually have a better life, just like her mother, but the difference is that Shu Ning at least decided to make a change, and his mother...

How much did Chen Shuo know about Ning Wan's family? He knew what the domestic violence case meant for Ning Wan. He almost made a decisive statement: "Ning Wan, I will do this case with you."

Unfortunately, Ning Wan shook her head: "First, this case is not very challenging for you; second, Fu Zheng was there when Shu Ning first came to the consultation, and the causes and consequences were clearer, plus the communication with Shu Ning just now. It is also because he has a lot of people. Obviously, he also has his own thinking about such cases. Prior to this, Fu Zheng did not have experience in dealing with marriage and family matters. He just took him to get started, so it is more appropriate for him to join me."

"But..." Chen Shuo didn't want to take this and Ning Wan's case alone and even get into her heart. He hurriedly said, "I haven't done any housework cases before, so I just want to come to the community. Fu Zheng is a newcomer in this kind of grounding gas case. If you take his master to do this case, he will definitely be more difficult, but I..."

"Lawyer Chen, this case has too much negative energy as soon as you hear it. You have just passed Dr. Zhao's enlightenment mentality. You should not take over such a repressed case. It is not good for your condition and it is easy to relapse." Fu Zheng smiled. Interrupted Chen Shuo, "Let me do it."

...

Ning Wan was thinking about her mother, but she was a little depressed. However, she looked at Chen Shuo and Fu Zheng's proactive work enthusiasm and deep friendship with each other, but only felt that there is a true feeling in the world and the relationship between people. , Still better than fighting!